A DIVORCED SINGLE MOTHER WROTE;

I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it's good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.

I am 32 years of age.

My ex husband and I dated for 6 years.

We where best of friends.

I waited until he completed college and started work.

My family and his family then met.

We got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn't control me.

Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain.

My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him.

If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me.

I never wanted divorce.

I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside.

I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused!

But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained.

I was asked by his family to withdraw the case.

I felt that what I was doing was wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized.

I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue and he remained alone.

After two days, I
received a call that he was in the hospital.

My family told me that I shouldn't go there because it would look like I was begging him and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused.

He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon.

I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me.

I called him and said he would get the divorce because I lived like I was in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared.

To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and I acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We were divorced in 2009 July.

Now, my husband is married, whilst l am here wasted!

My family members are gossiping about me.

I depend on what my ex husband gives to my son for survival.

I know I wasted my
marriage.

I am here telling all wives that they should be careful how they get advise.

Don't be cheated, don't entertain family interference in your marriage my dear reader.

Even my young sisters are much more respected than me.

Those who encouraged me to get divorced are always teasing and bad mouthing me.

Please ladies, be vigilant in your marriage.

Thought it wise to share my story to save your marriage.

There is no benefit in pride for nothing.

SOMETIMES IT'S NOT THE MAN'S FAULT AT ALL, IT'S YOUR PRIDE,AND THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOWED TO ADVICE YOU.
We  get into marriage not because we plan to come out of it after a period but we actually want to spend the rest of our lives together.
If we make certain issues that can be solved within time interfere with our relationship then how are we sure we won't face more difficult situation after stepping out of it.

Divorce is not an option for any marriage and we should try to know our spouses before get so intimate with them.
Create the time for a well understanding relationship.
No yourselves before getting into a life sentenced school.
Marriage is not a playing ground you can go in and come out anytime.
Be sure of those steps before taking them.



God bless and lots of love
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WHY A WOMAN'S BREAST SHOULD BE SUCKED

*BREAST SUCKING

The Woman's breasts are filled with hyper-sensitive nerve endings that get stimulated when touched, sucked or licked.

Men love to suck the breast just as women love their breast to be stimulated but some men avoid a woman's breast as soon as she gets pregnant because they believe the breast milk is harmful to Adults.

BUT CAN AN ADULT ALSO TAKE BREAST MILK?

YES...

Breast milk is quite beneficial for adults too... It increase an adult immunity as it does in children.

BENEFITS TO THE WOMAN:
It helps to balance the cardiovascular system. If a woman breast is sucked for a long period of time, it increases the heart beat rate of a woman to 110 beats per minute. It is a very good exercise for your heart health.

WANT A FIRMER FACE?
Then do not be reluctant for your hubby to suck your breast. It helps to move more than 30 female facial muscles; and improves blood flow in the skin.

ORGASM 
If you are the type that don't feel or enjoy sex. Encourage your hubby to suck your breast and play with your nipples, I bet you! you will reach orgasm.

BOOSTS IMMUNE SYSTEM 
It is a natural remedy that stimulates the immune system resulting in the production of Antibodies that can protect against viruses. This process is called CROSS IMMUNO-THERAPY. During breast sucking, the breath of a woman becomes faster more than 60 times per minute. INHALING AND EXHALING MORE OFTEN WILL HELP PREVENT A VARIETY OF DISEASE OF THE LUNGS.

CANCER OF THE BREAST
Study has shown that sucking and massaging a breast simultaneously and vigorously help to reduce chances of a breast lumps which can develop to cancer.. It helps in easy flow of hormones and prevent lumps in the breast.

BENEFITS TO THE MAN
Breast milk can tackle cancer. Adults with cancer cells, digestive disorder and immune disorder are advised to drink several ounces of milk daily or weekly to ease the ravages of CHEMOTHERAPY. It helps to bolster their immune system and improve digestion.

WOMEN, IF YOU ARE A BREASTFEEDING MUM, WILLINGLY ALLOW YOUR BABY TO FED FROM THE BREAST AS LONG AS THE BABY WANT. AS YOU'RE BREASTFEEDING, MASSAGE THE BREAST TO PREVENT LUMPS.; SAME IF YOU ARE USING BREAST PUMP, MASSAGE AS YOU PUMP.

IF YOUR HUBBY LOVE TO SUCK BREAST, PLEASE ALLOW HIM TO SUCK YOUR BREAST TODAY AND ALWAYS. ENCOURAGE YOUR BABY AND HUBBY TO SUCK YOUR BREAST. IT'S A WIN WIN THING FOR YOU.

To your health, JBi
@JBiHealthTips

NB: please share so others can benefit. Thanks.

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FACTS

JUMTALK·FRIDAY, 18 AUGUST 20171 read

when a lady says all men are the same, what she actually means is that all the men she has dated are the same which is likewise to a gentleman who says all girls are the same.

A lady whose hopes has been shutdown by men she has dated fears to get committed into a real relationship due to the risk of fallen into another heartbreak, this tends to be the same in the case of men who are also likely to use such circumstances to start flirting around,this does not mean ladies do not flirt under such circumstances ,they actually do,they are more prior to such acts.

Lets bear in mind that if our previous relationship have not worked out successfully its either it is not meant to be or the person would eventually return back to us, if not we should move on with our lives and learn to give chances to other approaches made because the one we tend to judge or reject might actually be the right one for us.

God bless and lots of love

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